November 2005 Archives

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This is remarkable. I've been doing a modest amount of research on the sexual assault of males for the past 2 weeks or so. I've read a book and a half and then a few more articles. I think the article head count is at 6. Not much, especially because the last 4 of the 6 I picked up tonight. While reading through these 4, and while browsing online trying to find mainstream support sites, I realized that I am familiar with a large majority of the literature. Specifically, when reading the articles, all of their sources were the ones I just finished reading. More than making me feel knowledgable or competent as a researcher, it makes me concerned for the males that have been sexually assaulted. The literature base for those professionals designated as their advocates, detectives, judges, prosecutors, and doctors is so small that these professionals will be hard pressed to be educated enough to do their jobs fairly. In addition to that, the lack of support must make male victims/survivors of sexual assault feel very, very isolated and alone.

What's worse: Many feminist orgs which were created to support female victims of sexual assault are refusing to let men into their client base for fear of losing the ability to serve their female clients (loss of funding, inadequate staffing, etc). It's just one big, bad situation.

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is the number of people who marched for Take Back the Night tonight. It was good to see them. To feel them, as a presence.

Take Back the Night is a confusing program to me. This sort of march and demonstration is so essential to addressing the issue of sexual assault on campus, but at the same time, there are so many disheartening issues surrounding this attempt. What about the assualts that happen during the day? What about the other days of the year when we are not marching? Why is it less than 2% of the campus that shows up for this? More than that percentage alone have been assaulted. I'm still confused, but I'm also pleased to have been able to take a part in standing up for the elimination of such painful and widespread abouse.

confused

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Is it "OK" that I'm getting married in less than three weeks and I forget that fact on a regular basis? Is that weird? It seems like it would be more normal if I forgot that I was married after Nov. 26th, but I can't remember it now. It just kind of feels novel every time I realize it again. (I think I'm overwhelmed). Has anyone else felt this pre-wedding?

Too much country?

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Tonight, I came back into my room from a bathroom stop in which I filled up my water bottles. I walked in and said to Mendon, "I've got a present for you," because he had asked me to get the water.

He stares...

He heard: I'd go to prison for you.

I sang, "OO-ooh Darlin', I'd gao ta prisen fer yuuuuH"