In case any of you are interested, I wrote a reaction paper for a class that I'm taking. Some of its text is in the continue reading link. This is, somewhat, how I think and a large part of my psychological perspective. It is not a rant, as it has been previously, about biopsychology. On another note, we were invited to dinner by our downstairs neighbor. Our next door neighbor also joined us. They are, respectively, graduate students in microbiology and mathematics from, again respectively, China and the Virgin Islands.
Dinner was fabulous and we have wonderful new friends:)
The Meal
Who is that?
Oh, it's our host!
Kevin
My own interpretation of reality has been of an existential bent for a number of years. When I realized that poverty and starvation is the product of what could be termed as “choices of a collective unconscious,” I became existential at heart (for the lay reader, this probably sounds Jungian. I assure you that the collective unconscious here is not necessarily Jungian or archtypal). Poverty is not an outcome of natural, uncontrollable consequence. It is the result of a massively maladaptive construction, on an agreed scale the size of culture, that assumes that it is acceptable to allow another human being to go without while another feasts. Strangely, in the cultures which embrace such a self-centered notion there lies the greatest capacity to provide others with aid. Those who embrace this view argue that hunger is a necessary product of surplus wealth but fail to see that surplus wealth is unnecessary.
Thus, localizing abstract cultural constructions to the individual is not a far stretch of the imagination. The individual constructs its immediate reality on a level within its own reach, the aggregation of such construal across humanity being what academia terms “culture.” Thus, the individual defines its own reality by choosing (and sometimes deciding) to perceive its reality in its own unique way.
With an emphasis on “man as scientist,” it is not inconceivable that the individual, as much as the collective, seeks consistency as well as pragmatism in constructive perception. From a developmental perspective of psychology as well as of constructive systems, the individual as scientist creates a constructive structure based on the development of previously established conceptualizations. For example, a child that is neglected by its parents and siblings may see an altruistic act by a generous stranger as being rare while a child that is well cared for may see a cold interaction with a stranger as being equally rare. However, what is important to understand is that each construct of each individual serves or served a pragmatic purpose at a point in previous development. With regard to development as a lifelong process, it is not necessary that a detrimentally misrepresentative construct be developed solely in childhood or adolescence. That a number of constructively revolutionary cycles periodically mark human development (such as the famous notion of the “mid-life crisis”) is suggestive of an ongoing revelation of erroneous construct development resultant in functional reconstrual.
With regard to my favored perspective, feminism, the individual’s reality is inherently relational. As noted above in the example, the development of each child is due to its interactions with others who already have a more rigid approach to the interpretation of their environment. Within the realm of education, the educator is responsible for the provision of a verbal repertoire that defines (or demarcates) the curricula. Thus, the primary caretaker of an individual is responsible as a teacher for providing it with its first, and likely, widest range of vocabulary, emotional vocabulary. To the degree that the primary caretaker is an effective observer, it is capable of inferring internal states of the child and providing the child with a language for expressing those states.
This verbal emotional education leads the child into a state of mutually independent and interdependent constructive process. As the individual develops, it must define its own conceptualizations of reality but is never free of previous conceptual experience and must take into account previous constructions of its reality developed in the context of mutual interactions. While free to make its own interpretation, even during and previous to any education in perceptual and experiential interpretation, the process is inherently interpersonal, even in the absence of others. In the language of literature, this is termed “the presence of an absence;” in psychology it is termed, “neglect.”
Keep rubbing it in :)
What is on the large plate in the middle?
Posted by: Hayley at August 28, 2006 2:18 AMHayley, that's gyoza (usually meat-filled dumplings). Oh my goodness, how exquisite! The food looks absolutely de-vine. So lucky.
Posted by: Mara at August 28, 2006 5:02 AMWhat a beautiful feast! What are you going to cook in return? Okay, okay, enough about food and friends. Now I will read the rest of your blog.
Posted by: Ma at August 28, 2006 8:45 AMSweetheart,
I am sure what you have written is very erudite and profound. I even understood some of the words, here and there. Frankly, I just feel stupid for not really quite understanding what the heck you are talking about. Maybe you can explain it to me (in English) when you come up next weekend. I'm looking forward to it.
Okay, in what browser does your new template look good?
Posted by: Mara at August 29, 2006 4:59 AMTo depart from early emotional development based on the primary rearing persons, requires a very great patience on the part of the individual rejecting most of what was inured early in life and by those now being injected into the otherpersonal experiencializing.(Is that a real word?)
Since change is really difficult in regard to a 100% altering, how can one really reject their upbringing and try for a complet "makeover" without truly losing who they are. Is a possible to do so sanely? Does one become naive and vulnerable all over again. To me this would truly be frightening.
I am still learning and changing(sometimes difficultly and sometimes it is eased by all kinds of rewards.) and it feels very much like what life should be about. Always an opportunity to be better. Often choices to be stubborn and reject changes or to go along with the "crowd" as we wend our way toward eternity. Our interpersonal associations, which we have continuously daily, help keep life from getting boring. If we were truly alone we'd get bored a bunch.
At some point in our lives we gain control of how much we are willing to compromise with others in our 'cultural' system of co-existence. Until we have formed an opinion of our surroundings ,in a beneficial prospect, I believe we cannot share our uniqueness with joy and fragrance. It comes down to a consorting of souls in physical bodies confinement. So we kind of soar within limitations. Thus the learning curve may seem to be imposed upon us.
Oh! Brag! And, I was the one that got to wrap the eel sushi. Our lovely host gave me a few tips and I'm quite pleased with the experience. :)
Posted by: Kristen at August 29, 2006 9:39 AM1. I deleted my stylesheet.css template file and don't know how to get it back.
2. I don't know how to work with the style sheets make them look decent on my blog
3. I'm pissed off because I've got so much to do this semester and, unless someone fixes it for me, I'm just going to start posting animated gifs of alternating complimentary colors to express my ultimate frustration. not that that's a threat, I'll just drive away my readership:)